Comment: Covid 19 lockdown is dangerous for domestic violence victims Published on: 19 March 2020 Writing for The Conversation, Rosanna Bellini and Nicole Westmarland discuss how home may not a safe place to be, for those trapped in intimate relationships with people who use violence and abuse. Shutterstock , and , Emphasis is currently being placed on people to self-isolate from their places of work and leisure, posing the home as a place of relative safety during the coronavirus pandemic. However, there is growing concern about what impact this might have on those trapped in intimate relationships with people who use violence and abuse. For some people, home is not a safe place to be, so the prospect of large parts of the population being confined to prevent the spread of the coronavirus opens the potential . Of course, COVID-19 cannot cause domestic violence, just as alcohol, drugs, unemployment etc. do not cause it. However, a heightened state of anxiety and stress ā including medical anxiety and the stress many of us will feel around being in such close proximity for such extended periods of time with our families ā is likely to make this a more dangerous time for women and children. This is in line with existing research that highlight that and are factors in increased reports of domestic violence. Perpetrators may attempt to deal with extra stress and anxiety by imposing stricter and more unrealistic regimes on their familiesā activities and behaviours. Itās a moment when the net of coercive control can be tightened. In fact, āsocial distancingā and āisolationā are core tactics of a coercively controlling partner. The majority of us are in contact with domestic violence victims, survivors and perpetrators, even if we do not usually recognise it. We are their lecturers, their medical professionals, their carers, their teachers, their social workers, their line managers and so on. If we are working in any kind of support role or direct contact role during the COVID-19 crisis it is important to remember that āworking from homeā brings with it very different challenges for different people. We need to be aware of how this may impact victims and perpetrators of domestic violence as well as children in the home. Keep in touch and decide on codewords. Shutterstock Here are a few things that we thought might be useful for people to consider during the COVID-19 pandemic: Understand that stress and anxiety does not cause domestic abuse but it may increase it in families where it is already being perpetrated. Acknowledge that this is an extremely unsafe time. Check in with someone who you are personally worried about. If making a phone call to a suspected domestic violence victim or survivor, always assume that the perpetrator could be listening in. The same goes for instant messaging services. If you suspect that the victim or survivor isnāt able to talk because of being overheard, give them a readily thought out line to end the call, eg if it is not safe to speak right now then please repeat after me āIām sorry there is no one called Tina here, you must have got the wrong number.ā If it is safe to talk when you call, arrange a codeword or phrase that the victim can use if interrupted, eg if you need to end the call at any point please say āno, sorry Iām not interested in taking part in the surveyā. Taking a time out Where there is not a complete lockdown and people are still able to leave their houses to go for a walk if not ill or in quarantine, the technique can be used as a last resort to stop immediate physical abuse. If there is a complete lockdown then a garage or garden shed could also work. The time out technique is taught within behaviour change programmes (perpetrator programmes) and is a way of creating physical space during times of escalation. It involves arranging an amount of time (between 45 and 60 minutes) for someone being abusive to physically remove themselves from an environment. They go to a pre-agreed location and message the victim when they are returning to the physical environment. We must underline that this is a last resort to using abuse and should not be treated as a ācureā for violence. At the time of writing, in the UK helpline services are still available. Respect run a phoneline for people concerned about their use of violence and abuse (0808 802 4040), a webchat and also a specialist helpline for male victims of domestic abuse (0808 8010327). The National Domestic Abuse helpline is open 24 hours a day on 0808 2000247. , Professor of Criminology, and , PhD Candidate in Digital Civics, This article is republished from under a Creative Commons license. Read the . 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